The Things We Never Say - Elizabeth Strout

The Things We Never Say

By Elizabeth Strout

  • Release Date: 2026-05-05
  • Genre: Literary Fiction
Score: 4
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From 1,330 Ratings

Description

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • In this “profound, resplendent novel”* from Pulitzer Prize–winning author Elizabeth Strout, a chance incident sparks a powerful realization in a beloved teacher’s life.

SHORTLISTED FOR THE BOOKER PRIZE • ONE OF BARACK OBAMA’S FAVORITE BOOKS OF THE SUMMER

“Strout’s capacious empathy and rigorous attention to the nuances of human behavior and psychology are as evident as ever.”—The Boston Globe

“Artie Dam is someone you may never be able to forget.”—Financial Times*

Artie Dam is living a double life. He spends his days teaching history to eleventh graders, expanding their young minds, correcting their casual cruelties, and lending a kind word to those who need it most. He goes to holiday parties with his wife of three decades, makes small talk with neighbors, and, on weekends, takes his sailboat out on the beautiful Massachusetts Bay. He is, by all appearances, present and alive. But inside, Artie is plagued by feelings of isolation. He looks out at a world gone mad—at himself and the people around him—and turns a question over and over in his mind: How is it that we know so little about one another, even those closest to us?

And then, one day, Artie learns that life has been keeping a secret from him, one that threatens to upend his entire world. Once he learns it, he is forced to chart a new course, to reconsider the relationships he holds most dear—and to make peace with the mysteries at the heart of our existence.

Elizabeth Strout, as we have come to expect, delivers a moving exploration of the human condition—one that brims with compassion for each and every one of her indelible characters. With exquisite prose and profound insight, The Things We Never Say takes one man’s fears and loneliness and makes them universal. And in the same breath, captures the abiding love that sustains and holds us all.

Reviews

  • Wow!

    5
    By Lilly Dipper
    I have read and enjoyed many of her books. But this one really touched me. Not quite dark, but bittersweet.
  • Overall Depressing

    3
    By denimac813
    I enjoyed some aspects of the relationships between characters and much of the main character’s inner dialogue resonated with me. However, when I finished the book the overall feeling was meh.
  • Wow

    5
    By ldsk;dskf
    So real so intimate so human. Couldn’t put down
  • A great storyline that doesn’t deliver

    2
    By Scott's take on things
    This book is short listed for The National Book Award, which really surprises me. It’s not bad but it has many flaws. The central character, Artie, thinks about suicide because his life is losing its meaning for him. He and his wife, Evie, have a wonderful son who is described as still scarred from a tragedy he caused many years ago. Evie also was changed for the worse by the tragedy. The book is comprised almost entirely of relationship descriptions — Artie with family and friends, with his students. But these relationships seem incompletely explored. Why his wife treats him with such hostility, why he thinks he has no reason to live despite his very strong relationship with his son, why his attempts to engage people with is free will question never go anywhere. The storyline is great but Strout doesn’t seem that interested in probing it. And her unnamed references to the Trump presidency feel forced, like she’s venting.
  • One more disappointment

    1
    By ThankfulinTn
    I have tried and tried to like her books. I think I’m done. I’m sure she appeals to a certain type of reader but I kept waiting for…I don’t know…excitement. There were starts. I won’t spoil anyone else’s read, but, well, in my opinion, people don’t read to read about lives that mimic their own. They read for escape. One isn’t going to find it here.
  • Decent but not Booker quality

    4
    By wynbee
    Had to read this after the Booker shortlisting and seeing all the TDS reviews! Disappointed on both fronts - nothing great about the story, sentiments or writing and hardly harsh on DJT. That said, a sweet relatable story and a very quick read. Definitely a decent beach or holiday read but I’ll be shocked if it gets the Booker.
  • Soft,kind and beautiful

    5
    By Buggs' Mom
    Her writing is impeccable. She seems to have a depth of understanding of the human condition that is quite remarkable. I love this book from the opening lines to the end. Maybe her best work.
  • A MIXED BAG

    2
    By suhollan
    The story of Artie is touching. Strout has always impressed me with her ability to develop characters and impactful relationships. However, this book disappoints because I find her presentation of President Trump and conservative politics unrealistic, tiring and plain weird. I fail to see what all of that lent to the story, except to demonstrate how people project their instabilities outward rather than looking inward. Also, I did not quite understand the subterfuge surrounding the son’s job. An attempt to show that the U.S. requires being rescued by the E.U. is seriously laughable. I finished this book because it was a book club endeavor. I have read all of Strout’s previous books, but I will be hesitant to read anything that she writes in the future.
  • The Things we never say

    5
    By YayaNetski
    This is a quick read . It’s a book that is totally relevant to today 2026 set in the last few years. The main character Artie Dam is a popular teacher with the ability to reach his students . This is enhanced through the dismal turmoil of what’s happening in the country and the world. Artie , at first , is a simple , wise and somewhat jovial soul. He has an unkind ungentle awakening of events in his life. Evie, his wife,his busy psychologist wife , has hidden a secret. His students especially Rhonda and Daniel, are trying to hold on to hope for their future. His extremely bright son, is overcoming his own tragedy and trying to pull his life together. Artie makes a new friend who saves him from drowning. All the while the background ,there’s the 2024 election and the swift change of American life .
  • Not for me

    1
    By 981Kathy’s opinion
    Horrible - includes Trump derangement syndrome rants and inflicts authors political views on the reader - not a book I would recommend